I really admire those people who can compartmentalize nearly every aspect of their lives.
Separate personal from private, groups of friends, love and loss from their everyday exterior.
I know people who are masters and mistresses of this. Slicing up portions of their lives, erecting Chinese walls around them for protection or just because that’s how they are.
That, I cannot do. I would make a terrible poker player. I wear my feelings on my face and so it seems everywhere else on my body.
I have read many times that people who have weight issues eat to numb pain/emotions/issues. I don’t think I do that people I actually FEEL everything. As i have said recently, I am a crier.
I feel everything said and done to me as well as around me so acutely. From personal slights to even world events.
I know I need to learn to get that in check. In the meantime, anyone know a good builder, I need me some of those Chinese walls.